Fun Home(work)

I met with Dr. M again today for my second-ever visit with AustinOCD. We talked about my progress last week, which consisted of just "poking" at little rituals and habits that I have. He said I'm in great shape and am going at a good recovery pace. That was nice to hear because it's kind of hard to tell if I'm taking on enough. Most notably, I made it out of the house 'til 4:15 (yay!) and ate some foods that are "off limits."

I've officially discontinued the Ativan - big relief! No more medication adjustments for a while.

My homework for this week  involves two things:

• Keep "poking" at my rituals and habits (but don't try to take on too much right now).
• Find ways to be purposefully imperfect. Dr. M said that OCD tends to make you want to do things perfectly, and that going out of my way to make errors, mistakes, and slip-ups will help my recovery. He suggested things like: including typos in emails, not doing all of my makeup, or leaving out dirty dishes. 

Also, I learned that Dr. M is familiar with Alison Bechdel, one of my favorite authors. I mentioned her book Fun Home in our meeting today, and he said the name was familiar to him. Apparently, he's read her comic strip Dykes to Watch Out For. Exciting!

Optimism

I've recently discovered that securing treating for OCD is almost as challenging as battling the disorder. In the last few days I've made some progress with my rituals, but have mostly been trying to make sure all the odds and ends with my new doctors are sorted out.

Insurance. The new treatment center I'm working with is "out of network" for my health insurance. This means that Blue Cross/Blue Shield will only cover part of my medical expenses. However, the people at AustinOCD suggested I try to get an exception granted to me since they're the only real specialists in town who treat OCD. I made lots of phone calls to BC/BS, and after speaking to many corporate bureaucrats, I've created an official request for them to cover my treatment costs. The people I spoke with said that there was a good chance for me to get coverage, so I'm optimistic.

Medication. I'm in the process of making my last medication adjustment. Two weeks ago I reduced my Ativan dosage by half, and right now I'm stepping off the medication entirely. Because of the difficulty of all my previous medication adjustments, I was very (very) nervous about this final one. I've also been informed that the withdrawal from this type of chemical, called a benzodiazepine, can be particularly hard.  I really don't want to lose any of the progress I've made, so I was bracing for impact with this med cessation. My anxiety has definitely been higher than usual, but I'm staying strong to get through this last withdrawal period.

Here are some things I'm looking forward to:

• My body chemistry being in balance again so I can start working on CBT/ERP with full force
• Getting to work again on my dissertation
• Watching Dancing with the Stars tonight with my mom (she's a big fan). 
• Spring